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My sister asked my to secretly buy her a "pleasure toy", should I go behing our mom's back and buy it?

I am 22 and out of the house. My little sister is 16 and still lives at home with our parents. She has been asking me a lot about sex and masturbation. We have a great relationship and my mom is just not the type you feel comfortable talking about that with (she is a great mom, but she is very christain/conservative and believes that masturbation is a sin) I love my mom and respect her very much,but I also feel that my sis is old enough to participate in self pleasure. I would much rather her do that than to have sex. I dont know what to do??? Is it wrong to go behind my mom's back and buy it for my lil sis? grow up Breana, it is not ewwww. We are just comfortable to talk about anything with each other I am so grateful I have that kind of relationship with my sis. my sister is a virgin. Yes, I do know that for a fact....I have tried putting myself in my parents shoes, but I am so liberal partly b/c they were so conservative raising us...

Public Comments

1. no. It's not her decision. LOOK AFTER YOUR SIS AND BUY HER ONE SO SHE DOESN"T USE AN STD RIDDEN D*CK
2. go ahead, it's not going behind your mother's back.
3. she will find a way to get one eventually so why not help her out. She came to you because she trusts you.
4. She is just 16, so it is natural that she is curious. If you ask me, I think it is better that she experiments with a toy for now.
5. Naw, just do it.
6. get her a pocket rocket!
7. its not wrong, wat shes asking u for is perfectly harmless, and if ur mom disagreed with it, it wuld just be becuz its embarrassing. ur mom did it too, just like everybody else!! and plus, shes ur little sister, ur supposed to help her out :-)
8. I am adult female who lives at home also. I can't have a "toy" because of privacy issues. Though this is what I use. I just buy some solid stick of deodorant. Its round on the end & I use it stimulate my area. (make sure the cap is on tight) Works great. No one knows I use my own deorderant stick for my hump day!
9. I find it very weird that you and your sister are talking about that. OMG close to my brothers or not, I would never !!!! That's just plain weirded out !!! No, don't by her a toy for God's sake it's your little sister.......EWWWWWW. Sounds very perverted to me.......no matter what you say.
10. yeah i think you should. you dont want her fiddling with boys. theres just some things you cant tell you parents and these i think are some of the moments. good luck
11. My dad used to always tell me that as long as I was under his roof, I have to go by his rules. If you do it and your mom finds out it might make her a little upset. I would advise against this, even though you are out of the house and have your reasons for wanting to do it.
12. If it means the overall sexual health of your little sis...I'd say go ahead. Like you said, it's better to masturbate than to go out and be having sex when one is too young or not ready. Then again, you have ask yourself what would to consequences be if your mom discovered this "toy". If something drastic might happen...maybe it's best to leave it be.
13. It is good that your sister feels comfortable enough to speak to you about this, and I urge you to keep up this relationship. Like you mentioned, she is better off masturbating than having sex. If you are uncomfortable buying her the toy to keep at home there are a few options 1- keep the toys at your house, for her to use when she comes over 2- teach her ways to please her self with her hands and water, etc so that she doesnt need to have toys Also, if she does confide in you that she is having sex, please please urge her to practice safe sex and tell her you will take her to get the contraceptive pill if need and/or condoms. And like I said before, keep this relationship with your sis up!
14. I don't see why not, as long as you accept the fact that if her mom finds it the heat might come back to you. so maybe if your mom is more of a snoop type mom i might be less prone to doing it, and also depending on what you think she might do if she found it. i don't know your mom so i can't really say. the fact you are asking the question makes me wonder about that, because it wouldn't even be an issue for me.
15. Why not....better than taking her to Planned Parenthood.
16. buy it
17. I am going to answer this question with a question. How would you feel if someone bought your child one? or something else, because they didn't believe the way you do? or doesn't agree with how you are doing things. You are treading a fine line. I would suggest that you both sit down and talk with your mom about how your sister is feeling. that way you can help ease the tension, It is good that your sister can talk with you, I hope that she can continue to do so, but you also need to encourage her to talk with your mom. I can tell you I would not want my oldest daughter to buy my younger daughter one. I would like to know what is going on, so that if something happens I can take care of her. If she keeps your mom out of the loop, she can't help her when things go wrong. I would hope that if and when my girls decide that they would like one they would come and talk with me so we can talk about the pros and cons, and all the other details that comes with her awaking sexuality
18. It's good your little sis feels comfortable enough to talk to you about this, I would just remind her (if she knows already) about the importance of safe sex. (and the whole talk if she doesn't already know) I don't think you need to tell your parents about this- unless you think she is involved with a guy and she's not being safe- or if she's too immature to be having sex. Also try putting yourself in your parents position- would they want to know? and would the way they respond be helpful or hurtful. Good luck- this is a bit awkward, but it's good she's coming to you and you can help her.
19. buy it
20. uh no
21. yes you should get it for her its not really dis-obeying your parents its just doing her a favor without telling them not behind their backs or else invite her over to your house and let her use it ONLY there
22. Are you a pervert or something? It's your own sister !!! Oh how gross........
23. buy it for her its not bad