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When my man isn't around I use toys to pleasure myself. Am I being unfaithful to him?

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1. When you aren't around, he uses his hand to pleasure himself-- is THAT cheating? No, to both.
2. that depends, are you and the toys on a first name basis?
3. I wouldnt think so its not another man.
4. Using a toy isn't being unfaithful to him how silly of you to think that.
5. Unless you're emotionally cheating with a dildo, of course you're not! Have you told him that you do this? He'd probably find it a turn on. You should try doing it in front of him!
6. No.
7. No its not like your cheating on him, its just obvious though that you are not getting what you want from him sexually. You should try working on it and get him to use the toys on you.
8. i mean he would probably be upset i mean he would say "what im not good enough" i heard that before.. but yea i mean you need to do you when he's not there so that's an excuse but yea i wouldn't tell him or i would use it with him so at least he knows you own them
9. I don't think so.
10. NO Do you ever use them when he is there and let him watch?It might really spice things up.My ex-wife and I would play like that.I loved using her toys on her for hours and hours. Life is short,have fun.
11. Heck no, as long as it doesn't reduce your desire for sex with him. it just means you have a high sex drive - your charged up, ready to rock his world when he gets home.
12. Have you noticed that the women' purses are getting bigger? This is to fit the toys whenever the need comes up. This is called: pleasure on the go. This is a good question and I would like to hear the judge on the TV show " Divorce Court " answer that.
13. No way girl!!...you should tell him about it. Or tell him you'd like to try one and see what he thinks. He will most likely get really turned on about it and want to join in on the fun. Talk to him about it...
14. How could that be? It's kind of like him pleasuring himself to pics on the internet. If you find it annoying then tell him...if he finds what you're doing annoying he should tell you. Communication is everything. If you don't communicate about jerking off then all is well. There's enough crap to worry about in this life...as long as you get on together really good then the rest essentially means nothing except calming animalistic needs without having to convey them to one another out of some backwards sense of guilt.
15. certainly not!
16. Oh gee, I hope not. I use toys quite often, with or without my partner.