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Does anyone else feel love becomes less pure as we age?

when were young we just think about being with the person, holding them etc.. maybe sex once in a while. but as we get older, sex and pleasure seem to be seemingly more and more important. why is that? is there anyone out there that still rather do the beginning aspects more than sex all the time?

Public Comments

1. I think some young people have this overly-romantic, idealistic, Disney movie fantasy about love. It's not that it gets less pure, it's that it gets more real.
2. Ah romance, the great and terrible adventure. Yeah, I miss that. But at your age there are still plenty of possibilities out there so don't give up.
3. I find I want to just be with someone, not as in always getting naked, but just being with them, MORE so as I've grown older. Meh, different perspectives/lives.
4. Men and women have different time frames when they reach their sexual peak, which has a lot to do with it. I'm sure there are lots of people out there who's interested in the "beginning aspects". Someone has to be a sex addict to want it all the time.
5. I understand how you feel , what I noticed about myself was that my life had a continuos cycle skipping introductions and getting to the more sexually pleasurable part of a relationship. This is fine but it does these two things 1. This goal oriented way of thinking while entering a relationship clouds all other aspects of a meaningful relationship. Your foundation is totally sexual and as that gets boring and you look for another partner. 2. It also trains you to think there is nothing more to a companion then just sex. That is bad sex = bad partner . I personally fell in love when I least expected it and I have not returned to my previous way of thinking since. I think love comes around twice in life it starts in your teen years disappears in your early 20's and then re-appears in your late 20's early 30's. I am actually realizing that having sex with the same woman for the last 5 years (as a married man now) has a lot of benefits and is the best sex I have ever had. I guess I am having my cake and eating it too.