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My sister asked my to secretly buy her a "pleasure toy", should I go behing our mom's back and buy it?

I am 22 and out of the house. My little sister is 16 and still lives at home with our parents. She has been asking me a lot about sex and masturbation. We have a great relationship and my mom is just not the type you feel comfortable talking about that with (she is a great mom, but she is very christain/conservative and believes that masturbation is a sin) I love my mom and respect her very much,but I also feel that my sis is old enough to participate in self pleasure. I would much rather her do that than to have sex. I dont know what to do??? Is it wrong to go behind my mom's back and buy it for my lil sis? my sister is a virgin. Yes, I do know that for a fact....I have tried putting myself in my parents shoes, but I am so liberal partly b/c they were so conservative raising us...

Public Comments

1. you know i think that is a smart thing to do for your sister instead of risking a pregnancy and STD it is good your open with your sister because at least she has someone who can understand her growing needs since she is maturing as a teen im 17 yo guy and i just cant talk to my parents regarding any sexual issues they are too conservative
2. i think she should wait until she is old enough to move out of the house....cuz you KNOW what would happen. mom would clean her room or something and find "it" and that is one conversation nobody wants to have, lol.
3. Take her with you to a store and buy her with her. That way if she has second thoughts thats the time to have them, before the purchase. She is going to find a way to get one anyway, kind of like if she was looking for BCP's, you'd be the one to take her.
4. It's a safer way for her to experiment than some of the other things that could happen. Buy her something generic so that if she's caught with it it doesn't cause all sorts of unnecessary anxiety for your mom.
5. if she would rather masturbate than actually have sex, i would run out right now and get her one. She can be self satisfied and not get pregnat. It may be weird, but you might be actually doing her a favor. Because going out and getting a guy to have sex with is free.
6. hell yea go get her the rabbit and let her release the beast within
7. Take her to Wal-Mart and have her buy a massager, that way she can tell mom that she got it for a sore neck or shoulder or whatever, if it is discovered.
8. I don't think there is anything wrong with self pleasure at your sisters age and don't feel that you would be doing anything wrong by purchasing her the toy. I was much young than her when I pleasured myself but I was not aware of any toys in those days, just had fingers to use but they can do the trick just about as good. If you descide to purchase it for her remember to tell her not to let your mother find it and if she should find it not to tell her where she got it. And if she has to tell a little white lie about it, so be it. If she tells your mother where she got the toy then she would be so upset with you and her at the same time and it is not worth getting her so upset. Good Luck on whatever you and your sister descide on what to do about her problem.
9. its not a good thing to go behind your parents back but it will be beter then her having sex and possibly getting pregnant. also when you know that shes had a boyfriend for a little while then get her condoms if she already dosent have them and birth control pills.
10. I think you should definately not buy it for your sister. You should respect your mom enough to not do this. If she really wants to masturbate she can find things around the house or use her fingers.